[GHF Blog Hop] Homeschooling my gifted/2e son for one month so far

This month, I am contributing to the Gifted Homeschoolers Forum Blog Hop on “Homeschooling a gifted/2e kid.”  

[GHF Blog Hop] Homeschooling a gifted/2e kid: one month so far | San Antonio Charter MomsThis is a blog about charter schools . . . so why am I writing a post about homeschooling?

Life is full of surprises. A couple of years ago, we moved to a different neighborhood, hoping to find better public schools for our kids. “Wave of New Charter Schools Enhance Inner City Living for Families”, Inga Cotton, Rivard Report, November 12, 2013. Meanwhile, I started this blog to spread the word about high-performing charter schools. “San Antonio mom blogger Inga Cotton with SA Charter Moms”, Colleen Pence, San Antonio Mom Blogs, January 25, 2012.

Then, last spring, I learned the hard lesson that even “good” schools don’t work for all kids—especially if your child is gifted or 2e. (2e or “twice exceptional” refers to when a child is gifted and also has learning differences or emotional or mental health disorders; see Resources: Twice-Exceptional (2e).) So, I made the decision to homeschool my six-year-old son, who goes by “F.T.” online. “A Lesson for New Homeschool Parents”, Inga Cotton, Red White & Grew, August 19, 2013.

Homeschooling: library books | San Antonio Charter Moms

Reading library books

The plan is to homeschool F.T. for one year until we can get a spot at our first choice charter school. (If we get bad news at the lottery, we might go to a backup school or homeschool for another year.) Even though things didn’t turn out the way I expected, this is a special time I get to spend with my son, and we are making the most of it.

Homeschooling: at the art museum | San Antonio Charter Moms

Art museum: Tlaloc the rain god; chocolate jar

So, we have been homeschooling for a little over a month now. Here are some notes about our activities, curriculum, etc.

In August, we ramped up on reading. The goal is to have F.T. read a book out loud to me every weekday. In reality, it’s about three or four books per week. We go to the library about twice a week and he chooses his books from the beginning reader shelves—level 1, 2, or 3.

Also in August, we started phasing in more group activities, such as science and art classes at local museums. We also joined a homeschool group that hosts weekly playdates in the park. (If you want suggestions about activities to try, just leave a comment or message me on Facebook or Twitter, and I’d be happy to share.)

Homeschooling: science experiments at the Children's Museum| San Antonio Charter Moms

Children’s museum science experiments

In September, we beefed up the schedule of activities, and F.T. adjusted to a new speech therapist. We got in the habit of playing classical music radio in the car, as mentioned in this earlier post about the symphony.

So far in October, we have added flash cards to the math routine. They are a good way to use of short amounts of time, when it’s not practical to unpack the workbooks and “manipulatives” (e.g., bag of Legos). We keep trying new activities, and there are some other projects on the drawing board. (Poetry? Chess?)

For record keeping, I keep a daily log—just a text file on my laptop—and I take photos of worksheets, artworks, science experiments, book covers, etc. as F.T. completes them.

Homeschooling: Singapore Math | San Antonio Charter Moms

Singapore Math workbook

Some of my friends and family were skeptical at first, but they can see how much happier and more outgoing F.T. is now.

Contrary to the myth that says you can’t work and homeschool, I am doing both. (There’s a GHF book about that, How to Work and Homeschool.) When do I work? I go to the office for a few hours on weekends while my husband watches the kids. Most of my writing for the blog happens in the early morning or the late evening. When I am covering an evening event for the blog, the extended family helps with child care. For daytime meetings, F.T. grabs his iPad and comes with me; sometimes he borrows the whiteboard.

What are my concerns? F.T. is an advanced reader, but I worry about falling behind in math. He dislikes handwriting, so I am putting that off for now, but we’ll need to pick it up again soon. And, I worry about making the transition back to a classroom next year.

Homeschooling and work: whiteboard | San Antonio Charter Moms

F.T. takes over the whiteboard

My house is messy, and I don’t get enough sleep. But we are living a life that is rich in the things that really matter: relationships and experiences.

I hope you found it helpful to read this account of the first month or so of our homeschooling experience. Choosing to homeschool was a risk, but so far it is paying off with F.T.’s happiness and joy in learning. If you have questions about how we are doing it, leave a comment or message me on Facebook or Twitter, and I will try to answer or steer you in the right direction. Also, I recommend that you explore the other posts in today’s blog hop.

Gifted Homeschoolers Forum is a great resource for empowered parents—homeschoolers and non-homeschoolers alike—and I encourage you to like them on Facebook, follow them on Twitter and Pinterest, and consider becoming a member.

Homeschooling a gifted or 2e kid | Gifted Homeschoolers Forum October 2013 Blog Hop

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I'm a mom in San Antonio, Texas who wants to spread the news about high-performing charter schools and ideas for educational fun.
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12 Responses to [GHF Blog Hop] Homeschooling my gifted/2e son for one month so far

  1. colleenpence says:

    It sure looks like you made the right choice, Inga. And I love this recap of how things are going so far. Doesn’t life feel so much better now than it did back in the spring? Yeah! 😉

    • Yes, Colleen, life feels so much better now! Whenever we hit a bump in the road, or life seems inconvenient, I remember how many tears we shed in the spring, and it puts the little difficulties back in perspective.

  2. I am glad your homeschooling journey is going well so far! It sounds like you have found a good routine that works for both of you. Even better your both happy about it!!

  3. You know your child best, and are his advocate. Kudos to you for taking this on. My oldest was language delayed and has a mild learning disability, and his first few years of school were so combative I often debated whether to homeschool him. As a former public school teacher, I opted to stay and fight, hoping to maybe improve things for all kids. But it was a headache. Thankfully, he has a great support team at our local school, and we finally found the right ADHD meds for him, and he has been very succesful the last two years. Hang in there, and keep pushing for what’s best for him. I’m sure it will be a great academic year for both of you.

    • Morena, kudos to you for choosing to “stay and fight”: it sounds like you weathered the worst of it and found a good situation for your son. Being an advocate and getting involved at your school are so important.

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