"Don't dwell on it": Stressing about the lottery, and making backup plans

“I try not to dwell on it,” I said.

“Yes, that’s probably for the best, don’t dwell on it.”

Stressing about the lottery | San Antonio Charter MomsThat’s a conversation I had before the holidays, when I was visiting with a Great Hearts Texas staff member, and I mentioned feeling stressed about the Great Hearts lottery. Well, I’m going to ignore my own advice and dwell on it for a bit.

As mentioned in this earlier post, the Great Hearts lottery is coming up next week, on January 21. I have no control over what happens at the lottery, but I can think about backup plans. My friends are asking me for advice, too. So, I thought I would share some information here, and hopefully start a discussion so we can all support each other.

Will it be more stressful to attend the lottery in person, or to wait and look it up online later? I can’t stand the idea of waiting, so I’m planning to attend. Keep in mind, though, that it’s not necessary to attend, and the results will be available online starting January 29, 2014.

At the lottery, we will find out where F.T. stands among all the applications for his grade. On January 29, we’ll learn if he got into Great Hearts, or where he stands on the waiting list. A good number on the waiting list means that F.T.’s chances of getting in are high: there are always a few families who make another choice, whether it’s enrolling at private school, continuing to homeschool, moving to another city, etc. 

While we are on the waiting list, we can also apply to other charter schools. Families Empowered, a Houston nonprofit, recommends filling out applications for your top three choices; read more at “Applications 101”. At this time of year, I maintain a list of charter school informational meetings, application deadlines, and lottery dates, and I keep it pinned to the top of the blog—see a recent version here.

To paraphrase Robert Frost: Public school is the school where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in. (The original quote was about home.) Greatschools.org has ratings and message boards for San Antonio. If the school you are zoned into is not acceptable, there are options . . . but they come with red tape. For example:

Private school tuition can seem cost-prohibitive, but scholarships may be available. Here are some sources of information about private schools: 

How do you figure out if a school is a good fit for your family? Visit. Ask questions. Talk to your friends. For more advice, see: “School choice guide: 8 tips to help you choose the right school for your child”, Inga Cotton, Alamo City Moms Blog, December 16, 2013.

If F.T. doesn’t get into Great Hearts Monte Vista this year, then we will probably continue homeschooling. It has its challenges—especially working and homeschooling—but I feel like it F.T. and I have a good rapport for learning and we are enjoying lots of bonding time. This earlier post is a snapshot of our first month of homeschooling; stay tuned for more thoughts and advice about homeschooling.

If F.T. does end up on the waiting list, we’ll be in good company: in Texas, there are over 100,000 students on charter school waiting lists. “Dan Patrick says 100,000 are on waiting list to attend Texas charter schools”Politifact.com, February 21, 2013 (Truth-O-Meter rating: “Mostly True”). In 2013, Senator Patrick authored SB2, which raised the cap on the number of charter schools; more in this earlier post. Also, the Education Commissioner approves new charters every year; this earlier post has information about the 2013 class. Choose to Succeed continues to help bring high-performing charter school networks to San Antonio, and to help successful organizations like IDEA Public Schools to expand more rapidly.

I can’t help dwelling on it . . . so, let’s help each other out. Leave a comment here to ask questions and share advice. I’ve also created a San Antonio Charter Moms discussion group on Facebook.

UPDATE: I attended the lottery, and found out that my son’s application is somewhere in the middle. We will start out on the waiting list, but with a good chance of getting an offer if a few families change their minds.

sachartermoms

Parent-activist and education blogger in San Antonio, Texas, USA. Helping parents make informed school choices and explore cultural activities.

4 Comments

  1. I can definitely understand how waiting and wondering is stressful. I’m crossing my fingers for F.T. and you that everything goes smoothly during the lottery!

  2. Did you attend the lottery? Would love to know how it went. Do you know whether or not Great Hearts will have a 9th grade this year?

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